New mothers’ sexual distress and sexual values in the transition to parenthood

The exciting changes that occur when becoming a new parent bring both new experiences and challenges. When it comes to sex, common adjustments include a decline in sexual desire and sexual frequency and an increase in sexual distress. [1] During pregnancy and postpartum, new mothers often report an increase in sexual distress which can include feelings of guilt, embarrassment, stress, and inadequacy related to sexuality. New mothers report more significant changes to their sexuality than their partners. [2] Of course, not all new mothers feel distressed about sexuality – even among those who report new sexual challenges [1] – and we know very little about what might help protect against sexual distress through pregnancy and postpartum. How much a woman values sexuality could be a relevant factor, since women often report declines in the importance of sexuality during this time. Women who more strongly value their role as a sexual partner may find it more distressing to face new sexual and relationship challenges during the transition to parenthood. At the same time, those who feel they are living in line with their sexual value – whatever it may be – might experience less distress about their sexuality.